Have you ever had some kind of project or chore you just didn’t want to do? Sure, we all have that on an almost daily basis. Maybe it’s doing dishes, cleaning the garage, doing taxes, or some school project that just doesn’t excite you at all. Maybe it’s looking for a job or starting a business something holds you back and puts you in a state of inaction because circumstances aren’t demanding you do it right now.
Dale Carnegie, the self-improvement author of “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” said this:
“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”
One of my father’s mottos I remember was “do something every day that you don’t want to do and you’ll be a better person for it.”
Have you noticed that when you finally get started on something it becomes easier to keep moving? Sometimes you don’t want to stop. It was hard to start it but now that you’re going you may have a desire to finish because you have a desire to see it finished (or maybe don’t want the pain of having to start it again later).
Discuss: Share 1 thing you’ve been putting off. Everyone make a commitment to do 1 thing on that project. If it’s a big project, make a commitment to just do 1 small thing every day to move it forward. Those tiny efforts will add up to completing the project even in just minutes a day.
If you want to be more successful, keep a log of the 1 thing you do every day until it becomes a habit. Those days of action will add up into building your character into someone who finishes things.
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